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Can you please help me?

I don't know what to do. My grandpa has a lot of diseases, he's only 63y/o and my uncle is giving him more stress. Uncle's always demanding, and loves to shout bad words to everyone. He looks down to our helpers, drivers, agents, children, me and siblings. He loves bullying and making fun of others. He only thinks for himself. He's greedy and boastful. He's 40 y/o but acts immature. He's the star agent of our funeral business that my grandpa owns. Please, cast spell for my grandpa's healing and a spell to get rid of my uncle's negative attitude. If you're willing to help, reply and I'll send you their full names. Thank you! Blessed be.

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Permalink Reply by Rev. Sherry Cooper on February 27, 2011 at 7:24am

Did you know there is a spell class at the school site?? I think its best if you take the course.

We can not do spells against someones will or without their permission..

Many blessings,
Rev. Sherry

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Permalink Reply by Sitti Cruise on February 27, 2011 at 8:27am

Thank you Rev. Sherry, I have my grandpa's permission for his health but uncle doesn't know that we (our family) want him to change.

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Permalink Reply by Rev. Sherry Cooper on February 27, 2011 at 8:38am

If he doesn't know then its against his will and really isn't something to do.

Remember this. And harm none, Do as you will. We never do magic against someones will. Now if he gave permission then you could cast something. Karma sometimes is a very hard lesson.

I just feel you really need to take the spells course.

If you need anything do let me know.

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Permalink Reply by Amberhawk on February 27, 2011 at 10:50am

Hmm... He really doesn't know? The only thing I can think of for you to do in a case like this is to get the family together and do an intervension type discussion with them. I can see a ritual being done, or a series of meditation and prayers, to ask for the stength and wisdom and compassion (even jerks need that sometimes) to deal with this. Surround yourself with those ideas for a few days to build up first, then pull your family together and talk. It might be worth having the strongest voice (the one your uncle listens to most, if at all) in the family take him aside and tell him so he doesn't feel ganged up on. I'd expect resistance from him either way if he's always been this way but making the point your grandfather is not in the best of health and shouldn't be pushed so hard *might* make him stop and think at least a little. You would be amazed at how blind some are to the obvious, too close to see it or in some form of denial.

I do wish you and your family luck in this.

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Permalink Reply by Sitti Cruise on February 27, 2011 at 6:40pm

Thank you Amber. I'm too worried, I don't think straight nowadays. Uncle thinks I'm crazy for being in the craft. I know I have to take classes but I don't have much time for it, I can't focus yet and I don't wanna mess up. Idk what to do cause as I said he only think for his self. =(

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Permalink Reply by Amberhawk on February 27, 2011 at 7:28pm

Messing up is normal. It will happen no matter how focused or well trained you are. And you won't learn focus if you don't practice. This is why meditation is so important. Trust me on this, without the practice regardless of what state of chaos your life is in, you won't learn the focus. This is why I suggested taking a few days and surrounding yourself with thoughts of strength, wisdom and compassion. It will help calm and level your thinking.

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Permalink Reply by Rev. Sherry Cooper on February 28, 2011 at 5:21am

YES, MESSING UP IS life. The classes are set up so you can do them at your own pace.

I just think if you learned a little it would help you focus better and would take time away from the negativity that your uncle brings to the table. I think if we work on you then you will have the strenght to help your grandpa.

If I could give you a hug dear I would.

May you have blessings So mote it be!!

BB
Sherry

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Permalink Reply by John Thomas on February 28, 2011 at 7:43am

Merry Meet Sitti,
I'm also worried about you. You will most certainly mess up if you don't slow down and pace yourself. Take the course above. What you need right now more than anything is to learn.

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Permalink Reply by Sitti Cruise on February 28, 2011 at 10:11am

Thank you so much Rev. Sherry Cooper and John Thomas, you two made me somewhat feel better. Other two members were bullying me in chatroom earlier and I'm so irritated. Thanks for trying to help me. Blessed be. <3 <3 <3