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When i get angry at someone even if its just a small thing something bad always happen to her/him. I try not to hurt people but i always do. Im starting to think that im evil. My questions is how do i control this negative energy.

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I might try thinking of specific and positive things to the people and events that make you upset. Start retraining your mind to generate positive energy towards all people, regardless of your judgements on their behaviors or personality.

Its hard, but with practice you can do it. We all tend to over react at times. The thing to practice is controlling your anger and thoughts. This is not easy, but in time you will master it. To start practicing, when you are alone, blank your mind. If you start to think of something, dont get discouraged, blank it again. It will take time. When you get angry, stop and blank. You can do it. The Goddess and God as well as us do not think you are evil. You just need to control yourself. Practice is all that will help my friend.

Brightest Blessings Lady Luna

Meditation....and intent. Anger is normal. You have to learn how to bless it and let it go. Intention is key in everything. If you get angry at someone use your intention to bless them and wish them the very best. This takes practice because our first impulse as humans is to strike out. but  because of who you are you must learn to control this impulse and rise above it. Medtitaion will help you focus that anger into something good.

 

And no, you are not evil.

first i ever get angry like you but i try for always smile to everyone n try for patient

now i think i'm more calm than before

that is just suggest form me if u want do that so doing if u don't that's ok not problem

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I've run in to some of this. Some of it may be karma in that person's life, but I think the important thing is that when you get angry, you remember that the person is only human. People say and do things for alot of reasons. Whatever they say or do to provoke you may have nothing to do with you at all. No one is perfect. I had to work through this recently, and when I am provoked, I make myself remember all the times I've made someone else mad. It helps me change the anger to forgiveness.
WOW!!! Great response my friend!!!

hmm it make remember my deceased mom......when i wanna try to feel that....that so sadness ....mad to someone where u no wanna do..... my mom still forgive me after she mad....

You are NOT evil!!! You may be having negative reactions and negative outcomes, but not evil. You are not wishing these people harm. If they made you angry, you were angry. You are allowed to be angry. There are definitely ways to deal with your anger, as the other posts can help you with. Meditation and reasoning with yourself are great ways. But above all those suggestions, you have to see yourself for what and who you are. You are a person who gets angry. Show me one person who says they never get angry and I'll show you a liar... But, by NO MEANS does that make you evil. It makes you human!!!

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