Six months ago, my little half-sister was born. I'm so excited to see her grow up into a fine young lady. Both her father (who is also my father) and her mother (my stepmother) are Christians, and I am a Wiccan (obviously). When she gets older, how should I show her what I believe in without her parents thinking I'm trying to "convert" her? I want her to know and respect me, but I'd like to keep in the good graces of our family.
Congrads on little sister!! First, let me tell you that I have 6 kids from ages 1-15, so this is just based on my experiences with them, lol
Generally we Pagan types don't try to convert people, so that's easily explained to your dad and stepmother if any worries should arise when little sister is older. Showing her what you believe can be simple, even non-religious in a lot of ways....sharing your knowledge of herbs and flowers on a nature walk (never mind you can also point out the changes in seasons and fun things like faerie rings!) You can show her stars and planets and tell her the stories behind the constellations like Orion or Andromeda. Making earthy (age appropriate) crafts with her is another fun thing to share with her. These are the things I've done and am doing with my children and that I remember my grandmother doing some of, and she's a die-hard Christian. Nature used to mean more to people than it does to them now.
Just try to keep things neutral, but if you want her respect, be sure to respect her for the person she is, not the thing people try to treat most children as. Remember she isn't a doll and she probably won't grow up to be Wiccan either, lol But as long as you're sharing with her in a way that's neutral, earth-centered and respectful, that should more than take care of staying in the family's good graces. ;)
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