Member's request to contact her daughter - Amber, 16

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Permalink Reply by Susan Wheeler on January 6, 2010 at 1:46am

This is what I personally get from her, but please let me know if this is correct, as I always make sure that the communication is from the right person on the other side?

On first contact your daughter made her presence known by an overwhelming sense of peace and calmness. She also wants to let you know that that is her state of mind exactly - she is at peace with her death, she holds no grudges. She's around you very often and she said that she sees you when you think you are crying alone - here I see you sitting with photos, going through them and remembering. It looks as if you are sitting on the floor beside a bed with the photos in front of you and around you in a half circle. I also see you standing on your knees, leaning on the bed as if in prayer - this is when you cry. You also talk to her then - she's listening! Keep on talking to her.

Please let me know if this makes sense to you?

Susan
Note: member replied per email that all makes sense.

Permalink Reply by J.M. Highcorrell on January 10, 2010 at 9:34am

the message I get from her is that....she loves her mom....that is was not her fault...I feel that there was a sickness....that she would be seeing her soon enought...that she loves her.

Permalink Reply by Susan Wheeler on January 10, 2010 at 11:21am

Hi Jason!

Thanks for your contribution. Milli told me later on that they as a family were in a motor accident and Amber died as a result. She was thrown out of the car as the car flipped several times. What you interpret as sickness could have been the injuries that caused her to die. According to Milli she died at the scene in her dad's arms.

One of the things she asks is that we try and find out if Amber unfastened her seatbelt at some time before the accident happened and also what she can remember from the accident.

Thanks again and I'm glad you're back!

Permalink Reply by Crescent (Rev) on January 25, 2010 at 2:51pm

I feel that Amber was killed in an accident, with no fault to anyone. She knows she is dead and is decidedly calm about it. I feel a sense of peace when I look at the photos of Amber. Yes, Amber unfastened her seatbelt to get something from her bag on the floor. She asks her parents to not blame themselves. Try and find some peace of mind.

Permalink Reply by Susan Wheeler on February 1, 2010 at 3:50am

Thanks Crescent!