your friend as you call her, is dragging you deep into something that you should leave alone! it is she that needs to learn her lessons, it is she that needs to make a choice. she cant avoid? and why not? is their a sexual or emotional attachment their ? perhaps. Oh what tangled webs we wave, it is up to her to make a choice, and follow through. Everything that happens to the us, the us were a part of it, their are always two sides to a story and if their is violence involved contact police ! and if she is unwilling to change, their is nothing you can do. change comes from recognizing that something or someone is wrong and if she does not see this and how she plays a part , then nothing will change. It comes when the self says IVE HAD ENOUGH and we take action ! I wish her well but for you , you will just create a enemy for the self, be of comfort, be a friend but she must decide BB