"Merry Meet everyone! I have been pagan for only a short while (A few years) and I am Bi, I have been studing wicca for about 4 years now. I have an amazing catholic boyfriend who accepts and is trying to learn more about my religion. Blessed be!"

"Thank you :) Blessed be."

"No worries, no one took it that way! There's always been the whole favoring issue, please KEEP the questions coming, it'll be wekk worth it in the future for you!"

"I think Thodwen explained it well. It was not my intention to choose one over the other, in any manner. It was just the easiest to focus on the one aspect for the sake of people understanding. I meant no discrimination ( I don't think…"

"Thank you everyone for such great advice. :) I will definitely try some new things to get myself motivated!"

"Hence wh put God/dess, and used "It" a few times, as well as Deity, I think it just honestly becomes a force of habbit after a while because that's what everyone tends to refer to the most, I completely understand where you are coming…"

"you can buy the books or print them out and read them at your own pace."

"I print out the ones I don't have books for, and then with or without the books, I read and underline and annote my books and pages. It's easy to do it in smaller bites, and I always know where I left off at, as well as having an easy to…"

"Well, I'm the same way. I just have to make myself do it. Talk myself into doing it. Then I feel good for having done it. I know that sounds simplistic, but it takes a lot of effort for me, and not because I don't enjoy the lessons once I…"

"What about the god? Why does nobody feel the god anymore? Wicca isn't a moon religion you know... : ( My only advise is that you don't try too hard. Else you'll begin unconsciously pretending you feel her, and it'll feel real…"

"I will definitely try this. It is relieving to know I am not the only person who's had this problem. Thank you so much for your advice and responding :) ~Blessed Be! Emygin"

"This is gonna be long so get comfy! Well, I know exacly what you're talking about, because It through the EXACT same thing! I've been a very devout practicing Wiccan for 2 1/2 years, and for a time (most of the first year) my spirituality…"

"In the 1st Degree Courses there are video versions of the Lessons, Here is Lesson 1 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF4DsggUcPc"