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coven or solitary?

merry meet everyone.
so for the last year or so I was a mini coven (only 3 of us) and it was great but ever since ostrea we have not met.
my high priestess said that her mum is sick and shes speneding time with her (which is fine) but the other member has not replyed to my calls or texts (same goes for my priestess)
ever since Ostrea I have been studying by myself and working though "the complete book of witchcraft" by Raymond Buckland.
but I was wondering am I now solitary or not.
because I kinda feel abanded and I dunno what I am anymore/
blessed be

-Nikki

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Comment by Rob M on July 26, 2011 at 11:41pm: hmm ... perhaps just a bit of different perspective. Maybe Goddess is telling you that group wasn't for you. Look around there has to be other groups about and don't forget online covens are a great option. The only way your truly Solitary is if you wish it to be so. And remember a candle in the dark always seems brighter when surrounded by other candles. Trust me you can only go so far by yourself. There will be a time where you will need someone else to provide perspective.

Comment by Ariel Ravenwood (Sherrie) on July 26, 2011 at 9:27pm: Awesome..... I don't think Leayn could have said it any better. I am a solitary myself, and am still learning all I can everyday about this spiritual path we are on. And I agree.... a quiet moment with a candle, or a relaxing bath with candles all around, can sometimes be the best way to get in touch with your inner self. And always remember to listen for the guidance from the Goddess. As I also agree with Panda.... this very well may be a test from her. Stay steady on your path and you will emerge a stronger and more enlightened witch.

Comment by Panda Ravenstorm on July 26, 2011 at 6:16pm: Think of this as a "test" from the goddess. Maybe she's doing this to see if you'll give up or not. Just don't give up, be strong, and live a good life. )O( Blessed Be, & Merry Part.

Comment by Leayn on July 25, 2011 at 7:05pm: Merry Meet Nikki....Your sense of being alone can be felt. I can feel it at least. I have always been a solitary witch. It has been wonderful for me to meet with Spirit, Goddess, and my energy in circles cast by myself, rituals held with reference, but just me, etc. There is a richness you can find when forced to explore your practice alone. No coven or group of like minded people should define what you are. You must believe you are part of the Oneness, a part of the web that makes magic and being a witch so fantaastic. Maybe spend time reading on your own formulating personal commitments from the depths of your own soul. Practice some things like visualization, balancing chakras, spell work and I can't emphasis enough how much being in nature can put you in touch with the Oneness, the Goddess, and Spirit. Nikki you're not alone....maybe try a quiet moment with lit candle, some sage incese or your favorite, and spiritually and mentally reach out for the energy of all of us witches and spiritual folks out here. We're all out here for you nikki. When your coven comes bakc together, it will so much stronger because of how much stronger and centered you will have become. I hope all this made sense.....I just felt compelled today to look into this area of the "my Classes" page and I'm glad I did....Blessed Be Nikki........Leayn

Comment by Boudica )o( on July 25, 2011 at 12:21pm: hank you Morrigan that helped alot. I have given them like what 4months or so. so now I think I am solitary

Comment by Morrigan Danu on July 25, 2011 at 11:11am: Greetings,

I would say that you should do what you feel is right for you. Deep inside I am certain you know what path in this matter you need to take. If a coven is what you feel is best for you, maybe the one you are is not a fit. I have never been in a coven but I thought it was something of a family. I do not think one should have a feeling of abandonment from their coven.